Why should I forgive?

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Sep 11, 2024
3 min read

Updated: Oct 18, 2024

1. Obedience to God's Command

The Bible instructs us to forgive others as an act of obedience to God. In Matthew 6:14-15 (NIV), it states, “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” Forgiveness is not just a suggestion; it’s a command that reflects our relationship with God.

2. Reflecting God’s Character

Forgiveness is a reflection of God’s nature. God is forgiving and merciful (Psalm 103:8-12). By forgiving others, we emulate His character and demonstrate His love and grace to those around us. This reflects our understanding of God's mercy towards us.

3. Healing and Freedom

Holding onto resentment and anger can lead to emotional and spiritual bondage. Ephesians 4:31-32 (NIV) encourages us to “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger… Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Forgiveness allows us to let go of negative emotions and promotes personal healing and freedom.

4. Restoration of Relationships

Forgiveness can lead to the restoration of relationships. In Matthew 5:23-24 (NIV), 23 “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, 24 leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift. Forgiveness is essential for mending broken relationships and fostering community.

5. Recognizing Our Own Need for Forgiveness.

Understanding that we are all flawed and in need of forgiveness can help us to forgive others. Romans 3:23 (NIV) reminds us, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” When we acknowledge our shortcomings, it becomes easier to extend grace to others.

6. Promoting Peace and Joy

Forgiveness can lead to a more peaceful and joyful life. Colossians 3:13 (NIV) encourages us to “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” When we forgive, we release ourselves from the burden of anger and resentment, allowing for greater peace in our hearts.

7. Spiritual Growth

Forgiveness is a vital part of our spiritual growth and maturity. As we learn to forgive, we become more Christ-like and develop deeper compassion and empathy for others. This aligns with the call to love one another as Jesus loves us

‭‭John‬ ‭13‬:‭34‬-‭35‬ ‭NIV

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

Conclusion

Forgiveness is not always easy, but it is a crucial aspect of our faith and spiritual journey. By choosing to forgive, we align ourselves with God's will, promote healing, and foster loving relationships, all while experiencing the peace and joy that comes from living in accordance with His teachings.

If you’d like to explore this topic further, consider discussing it in a Bible study group or reflecting on specific scriptures that resonate with your experiences.